Finding Your Way Back
"Healing Relational & Spiritual Pain"

Guiding You Towards Deeper Connection and Lasting Healing.

Are you navigating the profound pain of a broken relationship, a personal struggle with addiction, or a spiritual wound that feels impossible to mend? You're not alone. I am a therapist and coach dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families find their way back to each other, to themselves, after experiences of betrayal, emotional disconnection, or years of emotional estrangement.  

My passion is to help you transform pain into a profound journey of healing and renewed connection. 

How I Can Help You Find Your Way Back:

I specialize in creating a safe and supportive space for deep, transformative work. My approach combines compassionate understanding with practical strategies tailored to your unique circumstances.

For Couples:

I specialize in working with faith-based couples, especially those grappling with:

Infidelity and Rebuilding Trust 

Porn and Substance Use Challenges

The Erosion of Intimacy Over Time

I understand firsthand how disorienting it can be when trust breaks down. I am committed to creating a space where both the wounded and the one who did the wounding can begin the challenging but essential work of repair.

For Individuals & Families:

I also provide support for individuals and families dealing with:

Many of the individuals and families I help are those of faith who have been deeply hurt by the very communities they once trusted, yet who still long for a spiritual life that feels honest, safe, and truly life-giving.

My Unique Approach & Commitment:

With 25 years of experience as a pastor and 10 years as a missionary, coupled with my background as a professional coach and a Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) degree, I bring a unique blend of insight and expertise. I offer both therapy and life coaching, depending on what best serves your needs (and if you live in CA). My mission is to walk alongside you with honesty, integrity, and unconditional love, helping you become all that God meant you to be.

This work matters deeply to me. I do not take it lightly when someone invites me into their personal story. If you're ready to move towards healing and embark on this hopeful journey, I would be honored to walk with you.

Ready to Begin Your Healing Journey?

Whether you're ready to schedule a first session or simply want to learn more about how I can support you, I invite you to connect.

Email me at Bennie@BennieGonzalesMFT.com. AMFT License #155382